The Ghost of Who I Was
I miss the version of myself who could write poetry without self-consciousness. The twenty-two-year-old who wrote fearless poetry…
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I miss the version of myself who could write poetry without self-consciousness. The twenty-two-year-old who wrote fearless poetry…
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